Ghost Sex is real (though I have only heard this)

Here’s a story for you about ghost sex:

A man comes to me at a my shop in Miami. This was around the time I had just moved. My website wasn’t up yet, so the only way he could have found me was through word-of-mouth. I met with him because he sounded desperate.

He was.

See, his wife had died three years prior…but they never stopped having sex. I know what you’re thinking, and no: she was cremated. He wasn’t dipping in her ashes, or getting freaky with her urn. He and his wife’s ghost were still having sex.

Making love with a ghost

He couldn’t see her. He could feel her though, and sometimes, he could hear her. They would cuddle after ghost sex. They would talk, eat ice cream, and watch re-runs on television in bed. It was like old times.

The trouble was that it had been three years, and while he still loved his wife, he longed for flesh-and-blood intimacy. To make matters worse, he believed his wife was cheating on him…with another ghost.

It seemed that both husband and wife longed for the intimacy one can only get with their own kind, so to speak.

I spoke to the wife next, and it turns out that her husband was correct, sort of. The wife wasn’t cheating with another ghost per se. As it turns out, the wife was continuing an intimate, ghostly relationship with her lover, the man she was cheating on her husband with, at the time of her death. However, she didn’t want her husband to meet a live woman and move on because of her own guilt…even though she was continuing her own illicit romance with the lover she died with.

The heart of the matter

It took a few moments to get him to admit it, but the husband always knew about it. In fact, he said that their sex life improved after she died. This is largely due to the fact that she began having sex with him again.

In the end, I helped the wife overcome her guilt so she could let her husband go. Last I knew, he met a real life woman and they married.

Ghostly affairs?

I’ve been told by people that they’re having affairs with ghosts whom they met on the astral plane. Some meet these ghosts in their homes or apartments. Note that they have never met this ghost when it inhabited a body. A woman in the UK named Amethyst Realm claims to have been in sexual relationships with ghosts for a decade, and is currently in a very serious one.

It’s entirely possible that most spiritually advanced people can relate to ghosts, can successfully pierce the veil between the worlds, and become close to a disembodied spirit.

The only trouble is that when I have encountered someone (on those rare occasions) who says that they’ve met a ghost lover, I can only sense one spirit – the human’s – and a very, very active imagination.